12 Flirting Tips From Disney Characters That Work Like Magic

When I think of my ideal match, I think of a tall, dark-haired man with a reckless sense of adventure. And a magic carpet. A pet monkey, too. Wait, am I describing Aladdin? SURE AM. Not only because he was my childhood crush, but also because adult me has Disney prince high standards. That being said, I haven't exactly had the best of luck picking up gents, since my Tinder dates always show up with plenty of emotional issues but no magic carpets. 

This also probably has something to do with my flirting style, which is more Quasimodo than Snow White. It got me thinking: why not try learning a thing or two from the ones who made us believe in true love in the first place? I spent tireless hours studying my favorite Disney characters to gain some flirting tips I will now impart to you. You're welcome.

So many times I'll see a cute guy at a bar and think of a million ways to approach him—do I accidentally bump into him, compliment his shirt or all of the above? When it comes to starting a convo, pull a Flynn Rider and don't overthink it. Just say "hey" and see where it goes.

Once upon a time, I was hungover in a coffee shop and a GORGEOUS guy started staring at me. It turns out he was staring because I looked like the bird lady from "Mary Poppins," but if I had taken the time to use a hairbrush, I could've attracted this man's gaze for the right reasons.

Just think of how many relationship problems could be solved if we all sang more. You can't look someone in the eye and say no to a first date if they're baring their soul to you through song, ya know? 

This trusty crustacean knows there's no time to waste when it comes to snagging a hottie.

Meg was always my girl. She's confident, fierce and knows how to whip her hair back and forth. Hercules was totally enamored with her from the start, but she didn't give him any satisfaction until she was sure of her feelings. While playing games can totally backfire, showing you have a life outside of dating shows confidence. Don't give him the satisfaction of always being down to hang out—unless you get free donuts out of it.

Proximity is key when flirting since personal bubbles don't exist when you're attracted to someone. So share a plate of spaghetti or a milkshake when you go out, accidentally touch elbows and maybe even lips after you've shared that euphoric food experience.

There are two types of winkers: those who have masterfully perfected the eyelid choreography, and those who go full-on seizure every time they try. I fall firmly into the latter category, but I wink at every opportunity anyway, because it's impossible for the other person not to smile.

Can you feel the sexual tension here? I sure can. Making and breaking eye contact is basically foreplay.

Look for subtle moments to sneak physical contact into conversations with your crush. For example, pretend you're picking dust off their sweater or a bigger off their face. Any excuse to lean in and do some touchin' will do the trick.

The most important thing is to own your confidence. Wearing the dress that makes your butt looks fabulous will make you feel so hot and confident that you'll have the courage to do all of the above.

Obvi, looks aren't everything, so make sure they know you're a boss bitch on the inside, too. If you can climb a wooden pole, more power to you.

Not that you should take flirting tips from Ursula, but the sea witch did nail this one on the head. Body language is everything. 'Nuff said. You'll thank her later.